Showing posts with label Marie Kondo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marie Kondo. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

It's Hard to Let Go of Sentimental Things

Do you have piles of photographs shoved into shoeboxes and scattered loosely in drawers? Do you have ratty old concert t-shirts in boxes in the attic? Have you been hanging on to things from your past in an attempt to re-live those wonderful moments?  I was and all that stuff was robbing me of the joy of the new life I wanted.

When I started my full-time RV adventure, I dreamed my motorhome named Belle would be a haven of peace and adventure. Instead, I found myself surrounded by clutter, stepping over piles of stuff and catching things as they fell out of the overhead bins.

One day I realized that I hated RV traveling, not because of the driving but because of all the stuff I had to deal with when it was time to move. That's when I knew something had to change.

Live in the Present Not the Past
What kind of life do you want to live now? Are the things you have stored in your home supporting this life?  Are these things bringing you joy? If not, why are you keeping these things?

When I asked myself these questions, I realized I was keeping things from my past life that no longer supported the life I want to live as a full-time RV camper.  At the same time, I was keeping things from my parents', grandparents' and great-grandparents' past lives. Some of these items are true treasures and I am working to find a better home for them than the basement bins in my RV. Others are items whose meaning is a true mystery to me.

Yet, despite this realization, I felt too guilty to remove these sentimental items from my life and my RV. Why is it so hard to let go of things from the past? Why is sorting sentimental things so emotional? What can make the process easier?

Konmari Method Can Help You Sort Sentimental Things
Sorting sentimental things was the most difficult decluttering I did in my RV. I don't think I could have done it if I hadn't read Marie Kondo's book, "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up". Marie seems to ask the right questions or make a statement that helps you really think about your motivation for keeping things. Of course, she is famous for her "does it spark joy?" question, but it was her statement about photographs that really helped me.

"Photos exist only to show a specific event or time."

This statement helped me realize that I don't need hundreds of photos from a vacation trip. Several beautiful, well-representative photos can help me remember the entire vacation. Really, who wants to look through hundreds of photos when a well-selected smaller amount can beautifully tell the story?  To sort photos, Marie has you take them out of the albums. I know this sounds like a pain, but it really helps you to find those photos that are true treasures. You know, the ones that make you smile! And, it is easier to let go of the extra photos when they are already out of the albums.

The konmari method also helped me to sort through the antique photo albums I inherited. Initially, I started out by making copies of every photograph in my ancestor's photo albums. (I didn't take the photos out of the albums since they were glued in.) Then I realized, I didn't know most of my grandparents' friends or the events in these photos? Applying Marie's method helped me to focus my time and energy on copying photos of ancestors that were labeled with names and places of importance to our family. It also helped me to acknowledge that I am not the best caretaker of these treasures. I can send them on to a family member or historical society with no feelings of guilt or remorse.

Only Keep What You Truly Love
I know this is a rather vague statement, but I can honestly tell you that there will come a point in the decluttering process where you look around and realize that you are surrounded by only those things you love and use regularly.  There isn't a magic universal amount of stuff that is going to make everyone happy, but each of us will know when we are keeping all the right stuff. Now, when it is time to pack up and travel to my next destination, I know that the things I need to pack away are treasures and I don't mind the time it takes.  Now, my full-time RV life is one filled with delightful adventure and a whole lot less stuff!

Learn More About the Konmari Method
I started my Konmari tidying adventure in November 2019 and finished sorting my last box in March 2020. It was a lot of work and very emotional, but definitely worth it!

You can read more about my journey to declutter my RV using the Konmari method by clicking on the links below.

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Tools I Use Regularly In My Full-Time RV Life

I imagine that you are thinking that my full-time life must require some kind of exotic tools. Well, I will admit that there are some tools that are unique to this lifestyle, but for the most part, I use many of the same tools I used as a homeowner.  The difference is that I no longer keep multiples of the same tool. An RV can be a small place to live and store all your things, so you don't really have the luxury of keeping a lot of extra stuff.

Recently, I began to feel a little overwhelmed by all the clutter in my RV. I was forever stepping over or bumping into stuff. My tow car had become my storage locker. I decided it was time to do something about this, so I read a book on tidying by Marie Kondo. If you have been reading this blog since November, you know that I have been Konmari-ing my camper using Marie's method. I am almost finished with this emotionally exhausting exercise, but also excited about how it has improved the quality of my RV life.

What does this have to do with tools? Well, Marie has you sort your belongings by category and I just finished the category she calls "komono". Tools are part of this category.  I found this to be an easy process since my earlier "konmari-ing" work had trained me to know quickly what belongings I should keep and what I should let go of. The other thing I learned during this process, is that it helps me to sort things into sub-categories.  For example, I have work tools like a stapler and a laminator and I own cleaning tools like a bucket and a squeegee.  So, let me share with you my list of tools that I use regularly in my RV life;

RV Home Repair and Maintenance Tools
  • screwdriver with multiple tips
  • hammer
  • mallet
  • wrench
  • Allen wrench
  • pliers
  • measuring tape
  • crowbar
  • ax (trucker's helper)
  • clamp
  • staple gun and staples
  • glue gun and glue sticks
  • replacement LED bulbs
  • voltage tester
  • straight-edge razors
  • painter and duct tapes
  • stud finder
  • level (small green one hangs on a string)
  • twine
  • various types of lubricant sprays 
  • transmission fluid for hydraulic slides and jacks
  • caulk and sealants
Cleaning Tools
  • hose used especially for cleaning, do not use to get drinking water
  • bucket
  • sponges and rags
  • squeegee
  • long-handled mop to wash RV exterior and floors
  • duster to wipe down RV exterior between washings
  • cordless vacuum cleaner
  • trash bags (researching a plastic-free alternative)
  • dustpan and hand broom
  • broom for RV floors
  • collapsable extension ladder, folding step stool
  • Young Living's Thieves cleaner, I use to wash everything. Love it!
RV Mechanical Tools
  • a compressor that can inflate RV tires
  • a jump box to jump car or RV batteries
  • long jumper cables, just in case
  • slinky waste hose, hose caps, and gloves to wear while dumping tanks
  • wheel chocks
  • drinking water hose filter
  • drinking water hose (not pictured - it is blue)
  • "house" electric adaptors (50 amp to 30 amp dog bone)
  • ice scraper
  • RV tow car braking system

Work Tools and Stationary
  • laminator and pocket sheets
  • stapler and staples
  • rubberbands
  • paper clips and larger clips
  • pens and pencils
  • highlighters, dry erase and sharpie markers
  • scissors (since the photo was taken, kept favorite and gave away the other)
  • mailing envelopes
  • notebooks
  • ruler
  • post-it notes and scotch tape
  • Logi external web camera
  • Logitech headset with microphone
  • Laptop
  • iPhone
  • Verizon MiFi
  • miscellaneous toys and props for teaching class
Sports and Camping Tools

  • tent, tent poles, and rain fly
  • sleeping bag liner
  • foam mattress
  • hammock and straps
  • foil emergency blanket
  • first aid kit
  • solar flashlight
  • camping nesting pots and a frying pan
  • campfire grill
  • camping mess kit
  • camping utensils and a Swiss army knife
  • Coleman camp stove
  • propane canisters
  • CamelBak water bag
  • fire starters
  • hiking poles
  • clothesline rope and straps for securing items
  • folding saw
  • igloo chest
  • long trip backpack
  • daypack and fanny pack
  • swim noodles and swim shoes
  • picnic tablecloth, paper plates, cups and bowls
Closing Thoughts
Well, folks, that's just a quick post to give you some ideas about the kinds of tools you might need if you want to live fulltime in an RV. While your list will vary based on your own hobbies and interests, I hope you found my list to be a good place to start. 

As you can see, you likely have most of these in your homes right now.  If you watch YouTube videos, you will see a lot of suggestions on cool tools and gadgets you can buy to make your life easier in an RV. While it can be tempting to buy these wonderful things, remember, you will need to find places to put all that stuff. Most of my tools are stored in a small toolbox I keep in my bedside table, a drawer in the living room, a drawer in the bedroom and two Ziplock waterproof bins I keep under the RV in "basement" storage. I found over the past two years, that I am happiest when my RV is clean and clutter-free.


If you have any questions or suggestions, please type those in the comment section below. This blog is a place to learn and I love learning from all of you, too.

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Declutter Your Small Kitchen So It Works Better for You

Do you sometimes hate cooking in your small kitchen? Does it seem like every time you open a cabinet door something falls out?  Do you have trouble finding the things you want because you can't see everything in your cabinets or refrigerator? Are you thinking about living full-time in an RV but can't decide what kitchen things to bring with you? Well, then I wrote this blog post for you!

This past month, I decluttered my tiny RV home kitchen using Marie Kondo's Konmari method. This method of tidying lets you keep the things you love and helps you to let go of excess stuff.  Having recently decluttered my clothing, books, paperwork, electronics, and bathroom supplies, I was excited to see how this method might make life in my kitchen more enjoyable.

Marie Kondo's Konmari method breaks the kitchen tidying tasks into three subcategories: the things we use for eating, the things we use for cooking and food storage. I also told myself, that given the limited storage in the RV, items that served more than one purpose were preferred over single-use items. So, let's see what I learned along the way and how this might help you with your own decluttering and/or downsizing journey.

The Things We Use to Eat
When I downsized from my condo to the RV, I gave away a lot of things related to eating: china, crystal, salad bowls, mugs, cups, silver, holiday dishes and so much more. So, I assumed that there wouldn't be anything left to eliminate in this subcategory. Boy was I wrong. For example, after pulling everything out of the cabinets above my TV and out of my camping gear, I realized I had 12 coffee mugs, 8 water bottles, 4 tall travel coffee mugs, 4 juice glasses, 4 water glasses, 2 plastic wine glasses and 8 champagne glasses for just one person.

Since they didn't all fit in the cabinet, they were piled on top of each other and stashed into other spaces. I know you may think there are reasons to keep a few extras around for when I entertain guests, but honestly, it was too much! I was only keeping some things because they had been gifts. In the past, I felt too guilty to give away these things. With the Konmari method, I've learned to be thankful for the experiences of the past. I am better able to let things go.  Now, my favorite cups, mugs, and water bottles are safely and neatly organized into three divided boxes and I find joy in using them every day.

So, how many "eating" things do you have in your kitchen right now that are "just there" because you feel guilty letting them go?  Wouldn't it be better to discover the things you use every day and then create a neater, cleaner more organized way to display them? By just letting go of a few things, you can rediscover the joy of eating with things you love.

The Things We Use to Cook
If you are thinking about living full time in an RV and you love to cook, this is where you will have to make your hardest decisions. It is likely that over the years you've collected lots of gadgets and tools that you enjoy using as you cook.  I know how much I struggled to let go of many of my "cooking toys" when I downsized from my condo. But, after living full time in the RV, I know that the crowded cabinets and workspaces are making me unhappy, so it is time to let go of more things.

Since I felt a little overwhelmed by the idea of sorting through all my kitchen stuff, I divided this cooking subcategory into appliances, pots and pans, and tools for baking and food preparation. I pulled each category out onto my table and asked, "Do these things still bring me joy?" and "Do I really use them often enough for them to take up space in my kitchen?". Here is what made the cut.

Appliances:  My Instant Pot, induction stovetop, Keurig coffeemaker, Food Saver and my grandmother's 1930 waffle iron all made the cut. Each of these items brings me joy and I use them regularly. The blender in the picture is one I loved using, but I found I used my hand blender more often because it was easier to clean. Given the amount of space the countertop blender used, I decided to give it to my sister Susie.

Pots and Pans: Since I do most of my cooking on an induction stovetop, I use a few special pots and pans daily and I really like how food cooks in them. When my sister Susie and I cooked Christmas dinner, I discovered I could really have used a second pot with a lid if I wanted to leave cooked food in the pot. Otherwise, the pots and pans I own now meet my needs. If you are cooking for more than one person, you may need more than me.

Baking Food Prep: I bake and grill in a small convection microwave and not my RV's gas oven. This means the pans I use must be smaller than what you use in a home oven. I also bake in my Instant Pot so I own a 7" springform pan. As someone who loves a good gadget, there are a few things here that are single-use items. The reason I still have them is that using them brings me so much joy!

The Things We Use For Food Storage
I learned a lot about food storage when I moved into the RV. First, if you don't put food in containers in your fridge and cabinets then things are going to fall over when you drive your RV. Second, storage containers should be square or rectangular in space. Round containers waste space. Third, you don't need as many containers as you think you do. There is only so much space in the freezer and refrigerator for leftovers. Also, you can use some containers for eating and storing. For example, I use mason jars as glasses and to store food.

Fourth, if things can't be seen or aren't easy to access, they won't get used. Add extra shelves to cabinets to make the best use out of your limited space. Sort food into containers to stop them from falling out of your cabinets and to make it easier to access. (I bought my pantry storage containers with the handles for $1 each at the Dollar Tree.) Since it is likely some food will be stored in the back, label cabinet doors and containers so you know what you have.

Eliminate Duplicates
The items I've shown you in this blog post are only examples of what I love using to eat and cook. You will have different things you like to use. Whatever you decide to keep, I want to strongly discourage you from keeping duplicates. There is really no reason to keep four can openers or three sets of measuring cups. Given the small space of the RV, you will be washing dishes often enough that the thing you need to use will be clean and ready.

Decluttering Your Kitchen Is Worth the Time
The process of decluttering my small RV kitchen was a lot of work and a little emotional but it was worth it. Now, when I open my cabinets, nothing falls out. When I open my utensil drawer, I can see all my tools. Everything has a place and I love working in my kitchen. During these long winter days, I encourage you to take some time to sort through your kitchen and to say good-bye to things you no longer use or love.  I bet you might even like cooking more when you have a space you love to cook in.

Do you want to learn more about my decluttering process and the Konmari method of tidying? Use these links to see what I've done so far in my efforts to make my RV a tidier and happier place to live.



Do you have suggestions for storage in an RV or tiny kitchen? Are there things you've tried that made your cooking and eating experiences happier? Share your tips and tricks in the comments below.

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