Showing posts with label organizing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label organizing. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

It's Hard to Let Go of Sentimental Things

Do you have piles of photographs shoved into shoeboxes and scattered loosely in drawers? Do you have ratty old concert t-shirts in boxes in the attic? Have you been hanging on to things from your past in an attempt to re-live those wonderful moments?  I was and all that stuff was robbing me of the joy of the new life I wanted.

When I started my full-time RV adventure, I dreamed my motorhome named Belle would be a haven of peace and adventure. Instead, I found myself surrounded by clutter, stepping over piles of stuff and catching things as they fell out of the overhead bins.

One day I realized that I hated RV traveling, not because of the driving but because of all the stuff I had to deal with when it was time to move. That's when I knew something had to change.

Live in the Present Not the Past
What kind of life do you want to live now? Are the things you have stored in your home supporting this life?  Are these things bringing you joy? If not, why are you keeping these things?

When I asked myself these questions, I realized I was keeping things from my past life that no longer supported the life I want to live as a full-time RV camper.  At the same time, I was keeping things from my parents', grandparents' and great-grandparents' past lives. Some of these items are true treasures and I am working to find a better home for them than the basement bins in my RV. Others are items whose meaning is a true mystery to me.

Yet, despite this realization, I felt too guilty to remove these sentimental items from my life and my RV. Why is it so hard to let go of things from the past? Why is sorting sentimental things so emotional? What can make the process easier?

Konmari Method Can Help You Sort Sentimental Things
Sorting sentimental things was the most difficult decluttering I did in my RV. I don't think I could have done it if I hadn't read Marie Kondo's book, "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up". Marie seems to ask the right questions or make a statement that helps you really think about your motivation for keeping things. Of course, she is famous for her "does it spark joy?" question, but it was her statement about photographs that really helped me.

"Photos exist only to show a specific event or time."

This statement helped me realize that I don't need hundreds of photos from a vacation trip. Several beautiful, well-representative photos can help me remember the entire vacation. Really, who wants to look through hundreds of photos when a well-selected smaller amount can beautifully tell the story?  To sort photos, Marie has you take them out of the albums. I know this sounds like a pain, but it really helps you to find those photos that are true treasures. You know, the ones that make you smile! And, it is easier to let go of the extra photos when they are already out of the albums.

The konmari method also helped me to sort through the antique photo albums I inherited. Initially, I started out by making copies of every photograph in my ancestor's photo albums. (I didn't take the photos out of the albums since they were glued in.) Then I realized, I didn't know most of my grandparents' friends or the events in these photos? Applying Marie's method helped me to focus my time and energy on copying photos of ancestors that were labeled with names and places of importance to our family. It also helped me to acknowledge that I am not the best caretaker of these treasures. I can send them on to a family member or historical society with no feelings of guilt or remorse.

Only Keep What You Truly Love
I know this is a rather vague statement, but I can honestly tell you that there will come a point in the decluttering process where you look around and realize that you are surrounded by only those things you love and use regularly.  There isn't a magic universal amount of stuff that is going to make everyone happy, but each of us will know when we are keeping all the right stuff. Now, when it is time to pack up and travel to my next destination, I know that the things I need to pack away are treasures and I don't mind the time it takes.  Now, my full-time RV life is one filled with delightful adventure and a whole lot less stuff!

Learn More About the Konmari Method
I started my Konmari tidying adventure in November 2019 and finished sorting my last box in March 2020. It was a lot of work and very emotional, but definitely worth it!

You can read more about my journey to declutter my RV using the Konmari method by clicking on the links below.

Tuesday, February 25, 2020

Tools I Use Regularly In My Full-Time RV Life

I imagine that you are thinking that my full-time life must require some kind of exotic tools. Well, I will admit that there are some tools that are unique to this lifestyle, but for the most part, I use many of the same tools I used as a homeowner.  The difference is that I no longer keep multiples of the same tool. An RV can be a small place to live and store all your things, so you don't really have the luxury of keeping a lot of extra stuff.

Recently, I began to feel a little overwhelmed by all the clutter in my RV. I was forever stepping over or bumping into stuff. My tow car had become my storage locker. I decided it was time to do something about this, so I read a book on tidying by Marie Kondo. If you have been reading this blog since November, you know that I have been Konmari-ing my camper using Marie's method. I am almost finished with this emotionally exhausting exercise, but also excited about how it has improved the quality of my RV life.

What does this have to do with tools? Well, Marie has you sort your belongings by category and I just finished the category she calls "komono". Tools are part of this category.  I found this to be an easy process since my earlier "konmari-ing" work had trained me to know quickly what belongings I should keep and what I should let go of. The other thing I learned during this process, is that it helps me to sort things into sub-categories.  For example, I have work tools like a stapler and a laminator and I own cleaning tools like a bucket and a squeegee.  So, let me share with you my list of tools that I use regularly in my RV life;

RV Home Repair and Maintenance Tools
  • screwdriver with multiple tips
  • hammer
  • mallet
  • wrench
  • Allen wrench
  • pliers
  • measuring tape
  • crowbar
  • ax (trucker's helper)
  • clamp
  • staple gun and staples
  • glue gun and glue sticks
  • replacement LED bulbs
  • voltage tester
  • straight-edge razors
  • painter and duct tapes
  • stud finder
  • level (small green one hangs on a string)
  • twine
  • various types of lubricant sprays 
  • transmission fluid for hydraulic slides and jacks
  • caulk and sealants
Cleaning Tools
  • hose used especially for cleaning, do not use to get drinking water
  • bucket
  • sponges and rags
  • squeegee
  • long-handled mop to wash RV exterior and floors
  • duster to wipe down RV exterior between washings
  • cordless vacuum cleaner
  • trash bags (researching a plastic-free alternative)
  • dustpan and hand broom
  • broom for RV floors
  • collapsable extension ladder, folding step stool
  • Young Living's Thieves cleaner, I use to wash everything. Love it!
RV Mechanical Tools
  • a compressor that can inflate RV tires
  • a jump box to jump car or RV batteries
  • long jumper cables, just in case
  • slinky waste hose, hose caps, and gloves to wear while dumping tanks
  • wheel chocks
  • drinking water hose filter
  • drinking water hose (not pictured - it is blue)
  • "house" electric adaptors (50 amp to 30 amp dog bone)
  • ice scraper
  • RV tow car braking system

Work Tools and Stationary
  • laminator and pocket sheets
  • stapler and staples
  • rubberbands
  • paper clips and larger clips
  • pens and pencils
  • highlighters, dry erase and sharpie markers
  • scissors (since the photo was taken, kept favorite and gave away the other)
  • mailing envelopes
  • notebooks
  • ruler
  • post-it notes and scotch tape
  • Logi external web camera
  • Logitech headset with microphone
  • Laptop
  • iPhone
  • Verizon MiFi
  • miscellaneous toys and props for teaching class
Sports and Camping Tools

  • tent, tent poles, and rain fly
  • sleeping bag liner
  • foam mattress
  • hammock and straps
  • foil emergency blanket
  • first aid kit
  • solar flashlight
  • camping nesting pots and a frying pan
  • campfire grill
  • camping mess kit
  • camping utensils and a Swiss army knife
  • Coleman camp stove
  • propane canisters
  • CamelBak water bag
  • fire starters
  • hiking poles
  • clothesline rope and straps for securing items
  • folding saw
  • igloo chest
  • long trip backpack
  • daypack and fanny pack
  • swim noodles and swim shoes
  • picnic tablecloth, paper plates, cups and bowls
Closing Thoughts
Well, folks, that's just a quick post to give you some ideas about the kinds of tools you might need if you want to live fulltime in an RV. While your list will vary based on your own hobbies and interests, I hope you found my list to be a good place to start. 

As you can see, you likely have most of these in your homes right now.  If you watch YouTube videos, you will see a lot of suggestions on cool tools and gadgets you can buy to make your life easier in an RV. While it can be tempting to buy these wonderful things, remember, you will need to find places to put all that stuff. Most of my tools are stored in a small toolbox I keep in my bedside table, a drawer in the living room, a drawer in the bedroom and two Ziplock waterproof bins I keep under the RV in "basement" storage. I found over the past two years, that I am happiest when my RV is clean and clutter-free.


If you have any questions or suggestions, please type those in the comment section below. This blog is a place to learn and I love learning from all of you, too.

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Declutter Your Small Kitchen So It Works Better for You

Do you sometimes hate cooking in your small kitchen? Does it seem like every time you open a cabinet door something falls out?  Do you have trouble finding the things you want because you can't see everything in your cabinets or refrigerator? Are you thinking about living full-time in an RV but can't decide what kitchen things to bring with you? Well, then I wrote this blog post for you!

This past month, I decluttered my tiny RV home kitchen using Marie Kondo's Konmari method. This method of tidying lets you keep the things you love and helps you to let go of excess stuff.  Having recently decluttered my clothing, books, paperwork, electronics, and bathroom supplies, I was excited to see how this method might make life in my kitchen more enjoyable.

Marie Kondo's Konmari method breaks the kitchen tidying tasks into three subcategories: the things we use for eating, the things we use for cooking and food storage. I also told myself, that given the limited storage in the RV, items that served more than one purpose were preferred over single-use items. So, let's see what I learned along the way and how this might help you with your own decluttering and/or downsizing journey.

The Things We Use to Eat
When I downsized from my condo to the RV, I gave away a lot of things related to eating: china, crystal, salad bowls, mugs, cups, silver, holiday dishes and so much more. So, I assumed that there wouldn't be anything left to eliminate in this subcategory. Boy was I wrong. For example, after pulling everything out of the cabinets above my TV and out of my camping gear, I realized I had 12 coffee mugs, 8 water bottles, 4 tall travel coffee mugs, 4 juice glasses, 4 water glasses, 2 plastic wine glasses and 8 champagne glasses for just one person.

Since they didn't all fit in the cabinet, they were piled on top of each other and stashed into other spaces. I know you may think there are reasons to keep a few extras around for when I entertain guests, but honestly, it was too much! I was only keeping some things because they had been gifts. In the past, I felt too guilty to give away these things. With the Konmari method, I've learned to be thankful for the experiences of the past. I am better able to let things go.  Now, my favorite cups, mugs, and water bottles are safely and neatly organized into three divided boxes and I find joy in using them every day.

So, how many "eating" things do you have in your kitchen right now that are "just there" because you feel guilty letting them go?  Wouldn't it be better to discover the things you use every day and then create a neater, cleaner more organized way to display them? By just letting go of a few things, you can rediscover the joy of eating with things you love.

The Things We Use to Cook
If you are thinking about living full time in an RV and you love to cook, this is where you will have to make your hardest decisions. It is likely that over the years you've collected lots of gadgets and tools that you enjoy using as you cook.  I know how much I struggled to let go of many of my "cooking toys" when I downsized from my condo. But, after living full time in the RV, I know that the crowded cabinets and workspaces are making me unhappy, so it is time to let go of more things.

Since I felt a little overwhelmed by the idea of sorting through all my kitchen stuff, I divided this cooking subcategory into appliances, pots and pans, and tools for baking and food preparation. I pulled each category out onto my table and asked, "Do these things still bring me joy?" and "Do I really use them often enough for them to take up space in my kitchen?". Here is what made the cut.

Appliances:  My Instant Pot, induction stovetop, Keurig coffeemaker, Food Saver and my grandmother's 1930 waffle iron all made the cut. Each of these items brings me joy and I use them regularly. The blender in the picture is one I loved using, but I found I used my hand blender more often because it was easier to clean. Given the amount of space the countertop blender used, I decided to give it to my sister Susie.

Pots and Pans: Since I do most of my cooking on an induction stovetop, I use a few special pots and pans daily and I really like how food cooks in them. When my sister Susie and I cooked Christmas dinner, I discovered I could really have used a second pot with a lid if I wanted to leave cooked food in the pot. Otherwise, the pots and pans I own now meet my needs. If you are cooking for more than one person, you may need more than me.

Baking Food Prep: I bake and grill in a small convection microwave and not my RV's gas oven. This means the pans I use must be smaller than what you use in a home oven. I also bake in my Instant Pot so I own a 7" springform pan. As someone who loves a good gadget, there are a few things here that are single-use items. The reason I still have them is that using them brings me so much joy!

The Things We Use For Food Storage
I learned a lot about food storage when I moved into the RV. First, if you don't put food in containers in your fridge and cabinets then things are going to fall over when you drive your RV. Second, storage containers should be square or rectangular in space. Round containers waste space. Third, you don't need as many containers as you think you do. There is only so much space in the freezer and refrigerator for leftovers. Also, you can use some containers for eating and storing. For example, I use mason jars as glasses and to store food.

Fourth, if things can't be seen or aren't easy to access, they won't get used. Add extra shelves to cabinets to make the best use out of your limited space. Sort food into containers to stop them from falling out of your cabinets and to make it easier to access. (I bought my pantry storage containers with the handles for $1 each at the Dollar Tree.) Since it is likely some food will be stored in the back, label cabinet doors and containers so you know what you have.

Eliminate Duplicates
The items I've shown you in this blog post are only examples of what I love using to eat and cook. You will have different things you like to use. Whatever you decide to keep, I want to strongly discourage you from keeping duplicates. There is really no reason to keep four can openers or three sets of measuring cups. Given the small space of the RV, you will be washing dishes often enough that the thing you need to use will be clean and ready.

Decluttering Your Kitchen Is Worth the Time
The process of decluttering my small RV kitchen was a lot of work and a little emotional but it was worth it. Now, when I open my cabinets, nothing falls out. When I open my utensil drawer, I can see all my tools. Everything has a place and I love working in my kitchen. During these long winter days, I encourage you to take some time to sort through your kitchen and to say good-bye to things you no longer use or love.  I bet you might even like cooking more when you have a space you love to cook in.

Do you want to learn more about my decluttering process and the Konmari method of tidying? Use these links to see what I've done so far in my efforts to make my RV a tidier and happier place to live.



Do you have suggestions for storage in an RV or tiny kitchen? Are there things you've tried that made your cooking and eating experiences happier? Share your tips and tricks in the comments below.

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Sunday, December 22, 2019

Is Your Bathroom a Happy Place? Time to Konmari It

If you're like me, you're still half-asleep when you head toward the bathroom in the morning. Eyes closed, you open the medicine cabinet above the sink and a bottle of nail polish falls out and hits you in the head. When it's time to dry your hair, you spend 5 minutes digging around under the sink trying to find the hairdryer. At that moment, your bathroom is not a happy place and you promise yourself that one day soon you will clean and organize it.

RV Travel Days Means Things Fall Over!
Time to Konmari Your Bathroom
Well, my friend, if you don't declutter and tidy that bathroom space, it won't be long before that bottle of nail polish falls out of the medicine cabinet and knocks you in the head again. The reason things fall out of your cabinets is that you have been hanging onto too much stuff. Time to purge that bathroom.  I'd like to recommend you use Marie Kondo's Konmari method to help you create a space that you actually enjoy using. Open your cabinets and pull it all out.

Sort by Category
With the Konmari method, you sort your things by category, not by the room. I made a mistake when I first started sorting the bathroom. I thought I didn't have that much stuff, so I threw a towel on my bed. I probably should have used the floor.  When I gathered up all of the related items from my bedroom, kitchen area, and living room, I had much more than I thought I did.

As you're pulling things out of their spaces throw away all those old expired and broken things that somehow just got tossed in a drawer or under the sink. No sense in even sorting those into categories.


Here are the categories of things you might like to store in your bathroom.  These are just a few ideas to get you started.
  • Skincare: These are liquid-based products that you use to clean and moisturize your skin and hair. I include razors and shaving products in this category. Most people keep these products near the sink or shower/tub. 
  • Makeup: Many of these items are dry, powder-based products and the tools you use with them. If you have a lot of makeup, consider storing those you use daily in one box or container and those you keep for special occasions in another. 
  • Relaxation Goods: I was able to put my Young Living essential oils in several long, thin Dollar Store caddies in one of my drawers. I used to keep my oils on a counter in my living room area of the RV. I like this storage plan much better. I also created a "spa day" caddy with my nail polishes, pumice stones and other fun things I use once or twice a month on a weekend. These fit in the medicine cabinet in a little white Dollar Store basket.
  • Medicines: Since I mostly use Young Living essential oils to support my health and wellness, this category is really first aid for me.  I have a clear box with bandages and a few Young Living products (Deep Relief, Cool Azul).  I must confess I also have a bottle of Advil with some leftover medicines from my pilgrimage on the Camino de Santiago in Spain. (I know, I should throw them away, but I consider these to be sentimental items.) 
  • Towels and Washcloths: I keep my "guest linens" in a vacuum bag under my bed and other linens in a drawer in my bedroom. Otherwise, the towels and washcloths I use daily are hanging on rods or command hooks in the bathroom. 
  • Cleaning Products: I have just one bottle of Thieves cleaner under my sink. Any other cleaners I have will be stored together in one place. Since I haven't Komari-ed them yet, I'm not sure where that is. Right now I have cleaners under the kitchen sink and in a pail in the back of my car. (Oh, and maybe in a bin under the RV.)
  •  I have one extra category, (DIY ingredients). I plan to make my own skincare and cleaning products using natural ingredients and essential oils. I picked one cabinet in my bathroom to house all of these ingredients. If I don't actually start making these products by April, I will find a friend or relative who can use them.

Be Brutal and Purge
Now that you have everything spread out and sorted, be really honest and a little firm with yourself.  Throw away expired skincare and makeup. These products are only supposed to last 6 months to 2 years. Do you still have lipstick, shampoo, or body lotion that you opened a few years ago? Likely, you still have these because you really don't like them or use them. They were a purchasing mistake. Now you feel guilty that you spent the money and hate to throw things away. Let it go. Be thankful that you learned what you like and don't like. Opened skincare products and makeup can't be donated. If you have unopened products that haven't expired, check with your friends, family members or neighborhood women's shelter to see if they might want them. Expired medications should be taken to a local police department or pharmacy for disposal. Do not flush medicines down the toilet or throw them in the trash

Create a Calm, Relaxing and Pretty Space
3 for $1 baskets/bins at Dollar Tree
Try and find small boxes and containers to put your things into. Store things by the same category. Then find a cabinet, drawer or other space to put these containers in. Don't leave a lot of things out on the counter or tub edge. Keeping these spaces empty will make it easier to do daily, quick wipe-downs. Having your counters and tub ledges empty of stuff will also make you think your bathroom is a little bigger than it really is. Getting a bathroom organized so it looks bigger is especially important when your bathroom is in an RV and it is only about 12 square feet.

Tidy More Spaces
Once you see how wonderfully tidy and organized your bathroom is, you are going to want to clean up more rooms. Just seeing my Young Living Essential oils all organized and in one of my bathroom drawers just made me SO HAPPY.

This blog post is just one in a series of posts that share my journey of tidying using the Konmari method. I am about halfway through the process.

If you'd like to learn more about how I decluttered my clothing, books, papers, and electronics using the Konmari method, click on the links below:

Using Konmari Method to Reduce Clutter in My RV Motorhome, Again!

Do Your Clothes Spark Joy? Konmari Organizing Helped Me Find Out

Tuesday, December 17, 2019

Get Rid of Old Technology: Konmari Your Electronics

When was the last time you did an inventory of all the technology and electronic devices you have scattered all over your home, car, office, garage, and/or storage unit? I bet it's been a while and that you have a lot more than you think you do. Now, this process can get a bit overwhelming, so Marie Kondo in her book, "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" suggests that you sort CDs and DVDs first before sorting all the other electronics in your house.

When I started this process, I thought, this will be easy. After all, I recently helped my parents move out of their house and into a wonderful assisted living center. Part of this process including sorting through a lot of old technology and getting rid of everything they no longer needed.  So, when I did my own electronics inventory as part of "Konmari-ing" my RV, I was actually shocked that I still had electronics that "didn't spark joy" or "that I didn't use anymore".

One thing I learned about myself is that I kept a lot of "stuff" in storage because I was afraid. "What if I need it someday?" was the question I kept asking. Well, since most of the things I was keeping, like mystery chargers and cords, actually don't cost that much, the answer to that question is "You buy it when you discover you need it."  Before you get too freaked out by that thought, read through the rest of this post to see why it is unlikely you will ever really need to buy something you decide to throw away or donate.

So, where should you start if you want to minimize your electronics?

First:  Gather ALL of Your Technology and Electronics
Pick the place where you will put all your electrical and technological stuff. If you don't have much this can be a large table. If you have A LOT, you might want to throw an old sheet on the floor. Now, this may take some time. When I first started, I thought I had everything, then I remembered I had some things in my glove box in the car and in a plastic box under my bed. Don't forget to check outlets for those random cords and chargers.

Second: Arrange Electronics by Category
  • cords, cables, chargers, batteries
  • remote controls
  • phones, smartphones
  • computers, tablets, e-readers
  • printers, ink cartridges
  • cameras and camera equipment
  • gaming systems and accessories
  • home theatre (if it is too much trouble to remove speakers from walls, leave them there)
  • wireless internet and home network equipment
  • memory sticks, SD cards, photo disks, other data disks
  • empty CD and DVD cases, unused DVD-RW and CD-RW disks
  • Other categories based on your hobbies or work
Third:  Keep what you love!
I know, not every electrical cord sparks joy, but the laptop it plugs into does. Now, this is where the Konmari method really shines. Unlike other cleaning and organizing tips that have you clean one room at a time, the Konmari method has you clean by category. Now is the time to throw away all those mystery cords, cables, and chargers.  Take each one and try it on every piece of electrical equipment you have. If it doesn't fit in any of them, LET IT GO!  Donate it, sell it, or more than likely, throw it away. You no longer need to worry, "What if I need it?" You just proved the mystery cord you've been hanging on to actually doesn't go with anything you own.  

The trick with the Konmari method is to sort as quickly as possible. So, put those sentimental things (your first childhood gaming console) or things you need to review (SD cards and memory sticks) in a TECH PENDING BOX.  Set aside old laptops, tablets, and other devices if you need to transfer their data to a new device. This helps you not to get stuck or too overwhelmed. When I had time in the evenings, I took the box and my laptop and reviewed all my old data disks and transferred old files that I needed onto my current PC. (I even threw in two watches that needed new batteries so I would remember to do that.)

Fourth: Donate, Recycle, Sell or Throw Away
This is the stage where I used to quit and put everything back in a box. Hearing on the news that someone will use my old equipment to steal my identity made me AFRAID. This fear made me hang on to every broken old phone, PC and tablet. So, what's a person to do? Research, that's what! Get online and learn how to wipe the data off of your old computers, tablets, and smartphones. Find a reputable store that accepts donations of old equipment or that will allow you to trade it in for credit toward something new. Talk to a friend or relative who knows a lot about technology and ask for their help. Don't let fear cause you to hang on to things that no longer bring you joy or serve your current needs.  If you need help getting started, Consumer Reports has an article with tips for recycling old equipment.

While I didn't have much to get rid of, I did find I had a few game CDs not compatible with my current PC, some CD-RW with only 700MB of space, a camera that takes lower quality photos than my iPhone and some old iPhone cords. Oh, I also have some old equipment I want to get repaired. If I don't get it repaired by Valentine's Day, then I am wiping the hard drives and recycling them at a local Best Buy. 

Fifth: Store Your Electronics Together So You Can See Everything
Marie Kondo's Konmari method stresses that to keep things tidy, you need to store things so you can see them easily.  I picked a different storage method for each category. For example, my cables and chargers are either in a bright green net bag in my purse, in labeled ziplock bags in my newly defined "tech drawer" or the ziplock bags are taped to the device they go with. I stored "only used sometimes" devices like my DVD burner and large external hard drive in a large plastic bin. Then, I typed an inventory of the bin's contents and taped this to the inside of the bin. That way when the bin is stored in my basement with all the other bins, I can find what I need easily.

Lastly, Celebrate Your New Tidiness!
You worked hard to sort out your electronics. You may have felt overwhelmed and tired at times in the process. You made hard decisions to let go of some things. You dealt with feelings of guilt when you realized how much you spent on things you never used.  Now, that the work is finished, take time to celebrate how your new tidy space is helping to support the life you want to live now. Diffuse a favorite therapeutic essential oil. Grab a cookie and a cup of coffee or maybe a glass of wine. Be proud of your hard work.  You deserve to celebrate.

Have you used the Konari method to tidy your electronics? Do you have any tips for newbies? Share these in the comments section below. We all love learning from each other.

Sunday, December 8, 2019

Are You Being Buried Alive in Paper?: Konmari Organizing Steps 2 and 3

Paper is one of the biggest contributors to clutter in many people's homes. Look around you. Do you have take-out menus and kid's artwork hanging on the refrigerator? What about that pile of mail on the table by the front door? Do you have half-written in journals, notebooks, unpaid bills, and other miscellaneous papers spread out all over the dining room table and kitchen counters? Do you have a pile of books, newspapers or unread magazines next to your chair or couch just waiting for that day when you miraculously will have time to read them?  Do you have old school notebooks, work conference or seminar notes, money market reports, bank statements, 20 years of tax paperwork and receipts all neatly organized and packed in "way too many" boxes in your attic, basement and/or garage?  If you answered yes to any of these questions, you will benefit from using the Konmari method to clear out this clutter once and for all. It will be a lot of work but the sense of freedom you feel when it is done is worth it!

Eliminating paper clutter in your home can help to create a beautiful and peaceful space you want to live in.

So, what is Marie Kondo's Konmari method for PAPER? Usually, she tells you to pick up something and ask, "Does this spark joy?". Well, with paper, she says, "THROW IT ALL AWAY!" Now, wait. Before you all start yelling at me in the comments, she doesn't mean to actually throw it all away. What she means, is that if you start with that thought in your head, you will only "rescue" those items that are absolutely irreplaceable. This helped me a lot.  

So, what are some of my irreplaceable things?
  • Legal Identity Documents: passports, social security cards, birth certificates, marriage licenses, church records like baptismal or confirmation certificates, and if you care for someone else copies of the power of attorney documents
  • Certificates, Licenses, and Diplomas: teachers, hair salon stylists, taxi drivers, and many others are required to have certificates to prove that they are qualified to do their jobs.
  • Registrations, Insurances, and Warranties:  If you are required to carry these things on your person or produce them upon demand, keep a paper copy. If you have digital copies consider shredding the paper versions.
  • Finances and Tax Records: Keep only what is irreplaceable! If you can call and get another copy or have access to a copy online, get rid of the paper.  This is where I needed to take time to do some research to learn what was required by law.  Doing this research took extra time but was worth it. I also invested in a smartphone app called "Taxbot" that lets me scan and sort all my work and RV life receipts. This allowed me to shred 7 years of receipts that I was saving with my tax records. Wow! That felt good!
  • Magazine Clippings, Travel Brochures and Recipes: I call these the "someday I will do that" pile. Be honest with yourself and admit that while the information looked interesting when you cut it out of the magazine or grabbed the brochure at the welcome center, but you can easily find the information again online.  If you really want to keep it and will use it soon, Marie suggests that you should put them in a pending box.  I will tell you more about the pending box later in this blog post.
  • Other? Read Marie's book or watch her show on Netflix to learn what things you might need to keep. Everyone's life is different and we have different needs. I am just sharing how the process worked for me to inspire you to try it.
Now, if you are like me, you will find this whole process of purging paperwork to be very stressful and exhausting. Don't quit. BE BRAVE! Keep pushing through the process. You will learn a lot about yourself. What did I learn? Well, I learned that I was keeping papers unnecessarily out of FEAR!  What was so frightening that I kept all this paperwork?

There were two questions that kept coming up when I was debating on keeping something that wasn't really necessary or sparking joy:
  • Will I Get Hurt: What if the government requires that I prove I did something properly? If I throw it away will I get in trouble? What if I do something wrong? I solved this problem by taking the time to learn. I got online and researched the legal requirements of documents on health records, small business ownership, retirement funds, and home sales. This research is something I needed to do and have been putting off for a long time.
  • Will I Hurt Someone's Feelings: If something was a gift, like artwork from a child or a greeting card from a friend, will they be hurt when they find out I didn't keep it?  This was hard for me, but Marie suggests that the purpose of these items was to show love to you. These items have served their purpose. Thank them and let them go. If there are items that spark joy, find a beautiful way to display them. Don't just shove them back in that box under your bed.
Once I saw the fear and named it, I was free. I started the sorting process over again. This time, when I held a piece of paper I was able to make a quick choice about it. 
  • Keep it long term. It is irreplaceable, required by law, or church regulations
  • Keep short term.  I need access to it for a set period of time
  • Keep in a pending box and set an appointment (with myself) to do the task
When I was finished, I had one long term box, a few short-term folders, and a pending box.  So, what is this pending box I keep mentioning and how does Marie Kondo suggest you use one?  A pending box is a place where you put papers that require you to do some sort of immediate action.  These could be bills to pay, letters you plan to write, tickets you need to buy, and other things you discover in the sorting process. When you find something that requires action, you stand it up vertically in this box. By setting it aside, you can continue sorting without getting distracted by all the things you need to do. 

Unfortunately, I ended up with so much in the pending box that it became my "Box of Shame".  Years of procrastination were staring me in the face. That's part of the reason why I stopped sorting and started researching. My pending box was turning into pending boxes and I was getting completely overwhelmed.  I realized I was putting things in the pending box because I didn't know if I should keep them, not because there was a task associated with them.

Once I did the research to learn more about what the law required I keep, I was able to reduce the number of my pending items to those that fit into one small, pretty box.  I even included the book I am reading in my pending box. Now, in the morning after I teach my online classes, I can take my pending box and a cup of coffee and take time to complete these unfinished tasks and maybe even read a chapter or two. What a great feeling!  

As new papers come into the RV, I immediately ask myself, "Is this a pending item, recycling or shredding?" I have a recycling bin by the door for quick junk mail sorting, a shredder by my couch and my pending box on the counter so I can sort paper quickly. I make time daily to sort through the pending box and handle as many items as I can. Once a bill is paid, I keep it in short term folder until the next bill arrives to confirm payment, then shred it. So far, I am liking this process. I will try and let you know how successful I am at maintaining this orderliness in a few months.

Before you go, I want to clarify that I am combining steps 2 and 3 in this one blog post. Step 2 was BOOKS.  When I sold my condo and moved full-time into the RV I gave away a lot of my books and kept only those that were sentimental gifts, favorites or instructional. (shown here on my bed) When I began the process of Konmari-ing the RV, I realized my daily happiness was dependent on the ease in which I moved around in the RV and packed up things to move to my next camping space. To improve the quality of my life, I needed to find storage space for the things constantly on the floor and counters in my RV.  (I can't keep throwing things in the back seat of the car)

So, I re-evaluated the books I had and why I was keeping them. I realized I had not read most of the books or even looked at them since I sold the condo. Lately, I have been reading digital books from the library on my laptop or iPhone.  After saying "thank you" to my favorites, I packed up the Tolkien, C.S. Lewis, J.K. Rowling, and Lucy Montgomery books and mailed them to some of my great-nieces and nephews. I know that they will love them as much as I did. These books deserve to be read, not stored in a closet in my RV.  I've kept a few gift books with inscriptions written in the front, one signed by the author and a few manuals that I use all the time. Deciding to let go of my books has freed up an entire cabinet that now houses teaching supplies for my job with VIPKID. 

So, did it really make a difference? How much paper can one person really have in an RV? Boy, I was surprised! At the end of each day of sorting and shredding, I put everything outside on my picnic table and took a picture. Here is how much I eliminated from my RV after three days of sorting.



I could have saved everything to take a picture of one huge pile so I could really impress you, but I didn't want to have to climb over the pile of papers each morning. Taking things out as soon as I finished each day helped to keep my RV a little less cluttered. It also let me celebrate my success along the way.

Now, I need to let you know that I didn't sort all my books and papers yet. I plan to sort my family history (genealogy reports) and family photo albums as part of the sentimental category.

So, are you making New Year's Resolutions this year to clean-up your home after the holidays? Then consider using Marie Kondo's Konmari method to help you make decisions about the papers you want to let go of and those you want to keep to help you create the life you want to live.

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Do Your Clothes Spark Joy? Konmari Organizing Helped Me Find Out

I think this is the first time in my life I actually asked myself if the clothing I wear makes me happy. Having been a plus-size woman all my life, I settled for wearing clothes that fit and served the needed function.  Shopping for clothing was not something I liked to do. So, when I started the Konmari method of tidying and organizing, I worried that if I only kept the clothing I loved, I wouldn't have anything left.  Before I even started the process, I was planning to cheat and keep things that fit even if I didn't love them. (Bad me!) Thankfully, I talked myself into using the Konmari method as Marie wrote it.

If you are not familiar with the Konmari method of tidying, let me tell you a little bit about it.  Marie Kondo is from Japan where they have small living spaces. Tidying is something she has loved since she was 5.  When you use her method, you don't clean one room at a time. Instead, you sort one category at a time. This helps you see how much you actually have. It helps reduce duplicates. After all, how many of us actually need 5 can openers? (Yes, I have can openers stashed with my camping gear, in kitchen drawers, and even in my toolbox.)

Marie suggests that you begin with clothing since most of us are not sentimentally attached to our clothing in the same way we are photos or other mementos. You gather all your clothing in one place. You pick up each item and ask, "Does this spark joy?" If yes, you keep it. If no, you let it go. To make the process a little less messy, you can breakdown clothing into subcategories. These are tops, bottoms, clothing to hang (dresses, suits), socks/tights, underwear, bags, accessories and special occasion.  Once you've selected the things that "spark joy", you hang your clothing with the long items on the left and the shorter items on the right. When you look in your closets, this visually lifts your mood. Since I have two closets in my RV, I could hang my tops. Otherwise, Marie is famous for her folding method that allows you to see everything you own.  Here is a YouTube video where she demonstrates folding clothes.

I'm sorry I didn't take more before photos, because my drawers and closets were absolutely stuffed before I sorted things out. The one "before" photo I took was of my underwear and socks drawer.  Marie requires that you gather everything in one place. Before I could sort things, I had to hunt around to find where I stashed things. I had underwear in boxes under my bed, in the bottom of closets and in drawers. Once I had everything in one place, I couldn't imagine how all my underwear would actually fit into this drawer. However, I could see the magic of this tidying process, so I just forged ahead.

Sorting my underwear and socks turned out to be easier than I imagined. First, I threw away all the ratty and worn out items. Why do I keep things that are worn out and broken? Why, why, why? Then I threw away anything that actually hurt when I wore it. If you are a woman and have ever worn an underwire bra, you know what I mean. Then using Marie's folding method, I put everything back in the drawer. IT WAS MAGIC! Everything actually fit in the drawer, except the sports bras which I decided to put in a drawer with my sweats and other sportswear. Now, when I open this dresser drawer I can see everything and it actually makes me feel a little bit happy to see it so tidy.

Next, I sorted my shoes, scarves, and belts. I kept all of them. If you know me, you know I don't own many of these kinds of accessories. Then, it was time to sort the jewelry. When I moved into the RV, I kept my large jewelry cabinet. Over the last few months, I decided that the jewelry box was too big for my new life. If I put it on the counter in the bedroom it blocked my window and all the beautiful views. If I put it on the counter in the bathroom, I kept bumping into it and bruising my arms. So, I now know that it no longer "sparks joy" for me. The jewelry I wear now as part of my new camper RV lifestyle is simple and doesn't need the protection of a special jewelry box. It easily fits into ice cube trays put into one of my bathroom drawers. This is actually more convenient since I put my jewelry on after I put on my makeup in the bathroom. (I bought the trays at Dollar General. I think they are nicer than plain white trays.)

Sorting bags was a little bit of a challenge for me. I love tote bags, backpacks and all kinds of bags. But, if I am honest, I don't need all of them and not all of them "spark joy" for me anymore. Some of the bags were helpful when I was a teacher, but now I don't need them. In the end, I kept the backpack from my trip to Spain (yes, it definitely sparks joy), a backpack for my laptop, a lunch bag, my essential oils tote bag, a striped tote bag for pool days, my purse, a fancy event bag, a fanny bag (want to replace this eventually), and a waterproof bag for when I swim at the beach.

I've only just started the Konmari tidying process and I am already in love with the new tidiness and organization of my RV. I can't wait to see how many other things I can move out of my motorhome by either throwing it away, donating it or selling it. Check back in a few days to see how the process went after I sort the next two categories: books and paper. I can share with you that I'm a little afraid.  I have a hard time letting go of things that I think I might want to read "someday", books I've had since childhood or finance stuff I don't know what to do with.

Have you ever used the Konmari method or another method to sort your clothing? If yes, how did it go?  How long did things stay tidy and organized?  Do you have any other tips or tricks you can share with us? Type these in the comments below. Thanks, friends.

Saturday, November 30, 2019

Using the Konmari Method to Reduce Clutter in My RV, Again!


Do the fall season and upcoming holidays make you want to clear out all the clutter in your home? Have you dreamed of a simpler life? Well, if you live in an RV or motorhome like I do, just a little bit of clutter can make you feel like you are being buried alive in stuff!  It isn't that I'm a slob, really I'm not, it's just that there isn't a place to put everything. So, stuff sits around on the back of chairs, on tabletops and even on the floor until it is time to move to a new campsite. Then I throw everything into the backseat of my car until I get to the new place. Then, it all comes back out again to make a mess.

This isn't the life I imagined when I decide to travel full time in an RV. No, I imagined a beautiful, peaceful, simple, amazing life.

TIME TO CLEAR OUT THE CLUTTER!

Having just read, "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo, I decided to use the Konmari method to make decisions about the things I would keep, those that I would donate and the things that I would throw away.  Her method requires that you sort all of your belongings by category and choose to keep only those things that bring you joy or that are tools to experiences that bring you joy. Since I already downsized a lot of my belongings when I moved into the RV, I really couldn't imagine what I could possibly eliminate from my life.

Well, wasn't I surprised!  What I discovered through this process of decluttering is that my life and priorities have changed since I began living full time in an RV.  My needs are simpler. The things that "Spark Joy" are not the same as they were when I lived in a "sticks and bricks" home.  My desire to live more simply outweighs my need to hang on to "stuff".

Let me warn you, the Konmari method is emotionally and physically intense. It will make a mess of your home. Marie Kondo says that you need to start and end the process all at once. Now, I don't mean you will complete it in one day. Absolutely not! I have been working through the process for over a week now and I am still not finished.  However, I can honestly say that I feel a difference in myself in how I think about the belongings I chose to keep in my home.

Come back to read my few next blog posts to see how I did with the process.  There are five main categories and I will blog my thoughts and experiences on each of these: clothing, books, paperwork, Komono (tools and household) and sentimental.

So, are you ready to take the challenge and begin the process of tidying your own space? 

If you've used the Komari tidying method or something like the "Art of Swedish Death Cleaning" method to downsize and clear out the clutter, share your thoughts in the comments below.


Sunday, August 27, 2017

Full-Time RV Move-In Day

On August 19th  I moved out of the hotel where I had been staying since I sold my condo in July. That same day I moved into my RV. Throughout the day, I caught myself thinking of the move as vacation packing. Then it would hit me; this RV is now my HOME and I am going to be living in it full-time. I also quickly realized that as proud as I was of all the downsizing and minimizing I had done since March, there was still too much stuff to put into the RV. As you can see there was stuff all over the place. Books, dishes, computers, office supplies, and random decorations. Now if the RV was going to be just sitting in one place this wouldn't be too much of a problem, but since everything moves when you drive down the road all of this stuff was going to have to go inside a cabinet or under the motorhome in what I now call my basement.


Pinterest became my new obsession and I created a board to collect ideas on how to organize my stuff better https://www.pinterest.com/caminoturtle2016/rv-decor-ideas/
For example, did you know that a lot of RV owners use tension curtain rods in their fridge to keep stuff from falling out when they open the door after driving for a while? The curtain rods work great. Now if only I could find a way to make the fridge bigger. At 6 cubic feet, it doesn't hold more than about a week's worth of food. I can also see that I am going to have to buy smaller condiment jars and beer in cans since there is only one shelf on the door with enough room for bottles. Ah, the sacrifices one has to make for the freedom of the road.  Hopefully over the next month or so, I will perfect the art of packing the RV fridge.

YouTube is also a new favorite research location on all things RV and organizing. Because things tend to slide around and fall down inside the cabinets when I am driving the RV, it really helps to organize everything in bins and boxes. I got ideas about how to set up some of my cabinets from "Becky's Feathered Nest" and from "Do It on a Dime". While these ladies aren't actually full-time RV owners, I liked their ideas for affordable ways to get things organized.  This set of cabinets are above the dining table. The Young Living box has been set up with divided sections using cardboard and it houses my coffee mugs. The clear plastic box holds my steel thermos and mason jars and the sock/tie organizer box holds glasses. The plastic shoe boxes from Walmart hold spices and my essential oils. Everything snugs in tight and nothing moves when I drive.

Note: it is a little over a week later, August 27th, and today I got the last of the things that were stored at my niece's house. So now everything I own is with me. Having lived in my motorhome for a week, I can honestly say that some of these things just don't make sense to me in a home on wheels that requires that everything is packed up when you drive it. Yet, there are other things like my nice real silverware that fit nicely in their new home next to the motor home's sink. My hope is that in the next week I will be able to sort out what stays and what goes to Good Will before I head out again on my next RV trip. I am sure that this is only the first of many decisions to continue to minimize my possessions to those that are both useful and beautiful.

Sunday, June 25, 2017

Need, Want, Love, Panic - Part 2 - Downsizing to Move into an RV

The title of this post is NEED, WANT, LOVE, PANIC because I experienced all of these feelings in the past two days. At the same time, determining what I am feeling as I sort all my things is helping me to keep moving forward. So for those of you who were worried about me after yesterday's post, I feel better now. Nothing like a little prayer, a good walk and some grapefruit oil diffusing into the room to blow the nerves away. Now, that's not to say that I'm not still a little stressed out by all the changes that are happening in my life; I'm just not paralyzed by those feelings. At least not today. This afternoon I sorted through all my things and took a big load to donate to Good Will. Then threw away a lot of broken and worn out items. I am so proud of all that I've accomplished this weekend.

An article I found online listed 150 items every full-time RV owner needs. http://www.artseachic.com/coastal-lifestyle-blog/the-150-item-rv-supply-checklist As I read the list I felt better about some of the decisions I made about what I thought I needed to take with me in the RV. (This first photo shows the piles of stuff I decided will go into the RV. (Note the tall stack of desk stuff and books - not on the essential list but I LOVE them). Unfortunately, the article tempted me with ideas and I jumped onto Amazon and started looking for all the things I wanted. Then I scolded myself and decided to wait to see what comes with the RV before buying any of the things I don't have.

The hardest pile to sort through was the one with gifts and honors. First, because as we all know, it is hard to let go of gifts without worrying about hurting someone's feelings. And second, if I am honest, it is nice to remember that I was "honored" by people I cared about. I don't need to keep these things, but I want to. I also want to be able to show the results of years of hard work (Ph.D. certificate and service awards). These items make me feel good. But I can't take them all, so I took photos of some things and then filed the photos and the certificates in albums. (except for the papyrus certificate because it is so brittle).

So, after two days of hard work, I can say with some confidence that I am ready to move out of my condo when it comes time to close. The next step in this process is for me to buy my RV and move everything into it. (Excited) So, check back to see what happens next.

If you are a full-time RV owner or know someone who is, please let me know if there is something you think is essential to my future RV life by adding a comment.